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Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Reading = interpreting 2

 


Sudah lebih dari satu tahun, aku 'menghilang' dari satu media sosial, yang kupikir dulu impossible for me to leave. 😁 Jika pada masa aku aktif di milis percaya bahwa kawan di dunia maya itu bisa menjadi kawan di dunia nyata, maka bisa aku katakan bahwa kawan-kawan di 'dunia media sosial' satu itu juga kawan-kawan di dunia nyata. Seolah ada kebutuhan untuk terus saling berkomunikasi lewat status-status atau komen-komen untuk berinteraksi, setiap hari.

 

I would miss some 'friends who disappeared for days/weeks. And I would welcome them so warmly when they 'came back' from their 'hibernation'.

 

Sampai tiba waktunya aku merasa 'fed up' dan memutuskan untuk hibernasi beberapa saat.

 

Ternyata hidupku jauh lebih tenang dan nyaman. Tidak lagi ada pikiran, 'why the hell she/he wrote something like that?' ketika aku menemukan seseorang menulis sesuatu yang bagiku 'ga banget'. Tidak ada lagi hasrat ingin mengkoreksi cara seseorang memandang satu hal yang kebetulan tidak pas dengan cara pandangku. Tidak ada lagi rasa penasaran atas sesuatu.

 

(betapa melelahkan hidupku dulu itu ya? Hihihi …)

 

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Kebetulan tadi pagi -- Selasa 15 September 2026 -- aku membaca beberapa threads di satu media sosial yang kadang aku tengok tentang mindfulness yang diajukan oleh seorang selebriti, Maudy Ayunda. Aku membaca 2 threads yang mencoba memahami cara pandang Maudy tentang 'mindfulness' di tengah-tengah kehidupan bernegara yang 'embuh' ini.

 

Orang-orang yang membaca pernyataan Maudy tentu saja terbagi menjadi beberapa kategori, minimal dua, yang pro dan yang kontra. Kembali ke judul tulisan ini: it depends on their interpretation / understanding / their relation with such cases.

 

Aku sendiri langsung menghubungkannya dengan aku yang dengan sadar diri meninggalkan media sosial, ketimbang turut serta merasa emosional tatkala membaca status-status orang yang marah pada keadaan, pada pemerintah, dll.

 

I took a break from social media because I need to protect my own sanity. Some people tend to vent their frustration on social media. This, in some point, will infect other people the same frustration.

 

I logged off social media because I don't want to get involved in someone else's anger or hatred or frustration. 'Lucky' me because I am not a celebrity, nobody will take a damn when reading this blog of mine.

 

PT56 12.26 15 September 2026

 

N. B.:

probably you would find this interesting to read too.  

 

Such an easily lovable lady!

 

I am wondering if there is anybody who hates Dolly. She is such an humble yet respected lady. 💓💖💗

Monday, September 14, 2026

Light of a clear blue morning

 


[Verse 1]
It's been a long dark night
And I've been a-waiting for the morning
It's been a long hard fight
But I see a brand new day dawning
I've been looking for the sunshine
You know I ain't seen it in so long
But everything's gonna work out just fine
And everything's gonna be all right
That's been all wrong

[Chorus]
'Cause I can see the light of a clear blue morning
I can see the light of a brand new day
I can see the light of a clear blue morning
Oh, and everything's gonna be all right
It's gonna be okay

[Verse 2]
It's been a long, long time
Since I've known the taste of freedom
Those clinging vines
That had me bound, well, I don't need 'em
Oh, I've been like a captured eagle
You know an eagle is born to fly
Now that I have won my freedom
Like an eagle, I am eager for the sky
[Chorus]
'Cause I can see the light of a clear blue morning
I can see the light of a brand new day
I can see the light of a clear blue morning
Oh, and everything's gonna be all right
It's gonna be okay

I can see the light of a clear blue morning
I can see the light of a brand new day
I can see the light of a clear blue morning
Oh, and everything's gonna be all right
Everything's gonna be all right
Everything's gonna be all right
It's gonna be okay

'Cause I can see the light of a clear blue morning
I can see the light of a brand new day
I can see the light of a clear blue morning
Oh, and everything's gonna be all right
Everything's gonna be all right
Everything's gonna be all right
It's gonna be okay

'Cause I can see the light of a clear blue morning
I can see the light of a brand new day
I can see the light of a clear blue morning
And everything's gonna be all right
Everything's gonna be all right
Everything's gonna be all right
It's gonna be okay (Woo)

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In the podcast Dolly Parton’s America, Dolly says she wrote this song after leaving the Porter Wagoner show:

As I left his office and began to drive toward my home out in Brentwood, it began to rain. So did I. I cried. Not so much out of a sense of loss, but from the pain that almost always comes with change. It has a sad kind of freedom. Then, I began to sing a song to myself: ‘it’s been a long dark night and I’ve been a-waiting for the morning. It’s been a long hard fight, but I see a brand new day dawning. I’ve been looking for the sunshine; you know I ain’t seen it in so long. But everything’s gonna work out just fine. And everything’s gonna be all right that’s been all wrong. I can see the light of a clear blue morning.’ And, I swear to you on my life as I said that the sky cleared up, it stopped raining, the sun came out. And before I got home, I had completely written the song called ‘Light of a Clear Blue Morning."

 

But you know that I love you


 

 When the morning sun streaks across my room
And I'm wakin' up from another dream of you
Yes, you know I'm on the road once again it seems
All that's left behind is a chain of broken dreams
But you know that I love you
You know that I love you
Oh, I love you

And how I wish that love was all we'd need to live
What a life we'd have 'cause I've got so much to give
But you know I feel so sad down inside my heart
That the dollar signs should be keeping us apart
But you know that I love you
You know that I love you
Oh, how I love you

And if only I could find my way back to the time
When the problems of this life had not yet crossed my mind
And the answers could be found in children's nursery rhymes
I'd come running back to you, I'd come running back to you

But you know we can't live on dreams alone
Got to pay the rent, so I must leave you all alone
'Cause you know I made my choice many years ago
And now this traveling life, well, it's the only life I know
But you know that I love you
You know that I love you
Oh, I love you

Thursday, September 03, 2026

Brief history of Dolly Parton

 


"In January 1946, in a one-room cabin in the Smoky Mountains of east Tennessee, a country doctor named Robert F. Thomas helped deliver a baby. When it was done, the family had no money to pay him.

They gave him a sack of cornmeal.

The baby was the fourth of what would eventually be twelve children born to Robert and Avie Lee Parton, in a cabin with no electricity and no running water, in Sevier County, in a corner of Appalachia where the closest paved road was miles away. The children slept three and four to a bed because the snow came through the cracks in the walls at night and that was how you stayed warm. They washed in the creek with lye soap their mother boiled herself. Their clothes were sewn from flour sacks and feed bags by a woman who, by every account, made something out of nothing because there was nothing else to make anything out of.

The baby's name was Dolly Rebecca Parton.

What the cabin had, despite having almost nothing else, was music. Avie Lee sang the old Appalachian hymns that had crossed the Atlantic with the Scots-Irish settlers two centuries before. Robert Lee played a little banjo. The children sang along. The music cost nothing, and it gave the family things that the poverty couldn't reach.

When Dolly was about six, Avie Lee made her a coat. There was no money for one, so the coat was sewn from scraps of fabric — bits of whatever Avie Lee could find, in colors that did not match. As she stitched, she told her daughter the Bible story of Joseph and his coat of many colors. The little girl loved the coat. She wore it to school. The other children laughed at her.

Decades later, on the back of a dry cleaning receipt on a Porter Wagoner Show tour bus, Dolly Parton wrote a song about that coat. It came out in 1971. It has made several generations of listeners cry. She has said in interviews that the day the other kids laughed at her coat was one of the most painful days of her childhood, and that writing the song was how she finally turned the moment into something she could hold.

She had been working professionally since she was ten. By thirteen she had recorded her first single, on a Louisiana label called Goldband, for a song called Puppy Love. She graduated from Sevier County High School in 1964 and left for Nashville the next day, with a guitar and a suitcase, on a Greyhound bus. She was eighteen years old.

The career most people know followed. Jolene. I Will Always Love You. 9 to 5. The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas. Steel Magnolias. The Tennessee theme park she opened in 1986, Dollywood, which has become one of the largest employers in her home county. The Country Music Hall of Fame. The Songwriters Hall of Fame. The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, in 2022, which she initially declined and then accepted. The honorary doctorate from the University of Tennessee. The Kennedy Center Honors. Eleven Grammy Awards, fifty Grammy nominations, hundreds of songs of her own, thousands recorded by other people.

The part of her story that is less commonly told is what she did with the money.

In 1995, in honor of her father — who was illiterate, and ashamed of being illiterate — she started a small program in Sevier County that mailed a free book every month to every child from birth to age five, with no application, no income test, no hoops. She called it Dolly Parton's Imagination Library. It started with a few hundred children in one Tennessee county.

It now operates in the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, the Republic of Ireland, and Australia. It has delivered, by the most recent count, approximately two hundred and fifty million books, addressed to individual children by name. Many of those children come from homes that, in 1946, would have looked something like the one she came from.

In November of 2016, when the Chimney Tops 2 wildfires destroyed roughly twenty-five hundred buildings around Gatlinburg, Tennessee, and killed fourteen people, Parton did not write a single check. She launched the My People Fund and gave $1,000 a month for six months to each of approximately nine hundred families who had lost their homes. The total distributed exceeded $5 million. The point of the monthly structure, she said, was that recovery does not happen in one payment. Recovery happens slowly, and people need money next month as well.

In April 2020, two months into the COVID-19 pandemic, she donated $1 million to Vanderbilt University Medical Center for coronavirus research. The Vanderbilt scientists used part of that money in collaboration with the team developing what became the Moderna vaccine. When the research paper was published, her name was in the acknowledgments, between scientists with PhDs.

She married a man named Carl Dean in May 1966, two years after she arrived in Nashville. He ran an asphalt paving company. He almost never appeared in public with her. He gave no interviews, in nearly sixty years, except in the rarest of circumstances. He preferred to be at home in Tennessee. They were married for fifty-eight years.

Carl Dean died on March 3, 2025. He was eighty-two. Parton released a brief statement saying she would always treasure his memory and asking for the privacy he had spent his whole life requesting. She continued working through her grief.

She is eighty years old now. She turned eighty in January 2026. She still records. She still gives the books away.

The doctor in 1946 was paid in cornmeal because the family had nothing else.

She has spent the next eighty years repaying it.

If her story moved you, drop one word in the comments — Dolly, books, cornmeal, anything that comes to mind. Tap the like button so more people find this story. The page is small. Every reaction helps us keep telling stories like this one."


🔥 She was born in a tiny cabin and her family paid the doctor with a sack of cornmeal… Decades later, Dolly Parton turned that humble beginning into a legacy that changed millions of lives. Discover the incredible story:

👉 Click to read the full story: https://ifeg.info/2026/08/30/the-extraordinary-journey-of-dolly-parton-the-girl-who-turned-poverty-into-purpose-2/

Wednesday, September 02, 2026

Our beloved Dolly Parton

 

I have been watching/listening to Dolly's songs more than before she passed away on 25 August 2026. One 'funny' memory I had with Dolly was when I was in college. Perhaps I was still in semester 3, I was less than 20 years of age back then. One day there was a job vacancy of a radio announcer of one radio station in Jogja. Some friends living in the same boarding house with me tried their luck to apply for it, and so did I. 

I didn't really remember the whole process of that story, except one thing. The interviewer asked me what kind of music genre I liked, I answered country music. Then the interviewer asked me who my favorite country musician was. I answered, "John Denver." The interviewer asked me more, "How about female country musician?" I could not answer, lol. I already knew Dolly Parton back then, of course. I love her melancholic songs entitled 'You Are' and 'I will always love you' which I thought not country songs, 😀 I know 'Island in the stream' sung by Dolly and Kenny Rogers too; in my ears this was not a country song either. 😃

The interviewer didn't seem happy to find out I could not answer her question 😆 and you can guess I didn't get the job 😁 if only I had got that job, my life would be very much different, I believe.

Back to Dolly Parton again. 

I have watched some interviews of hers with some hosts/journalists. Those interviews just showed how smart and humble she was. She was absolutely remarkably loving and lovable.

Rest in peace, superstar. 💓


 N.B.:

And out of the blue I missed my time when studying at American Studies Program, Gadjahmada University. 

PT56 12.51 02 September 2026 

Thursday, August 27, 2026

R.I.P Dolly Parton

 I grew up listening to Dolly's 'I will always love you' and I used to try singing it the way Dolly was singing. Until the movie Bodyguard appeared and Whitney Houston sang this particular song, the way Whitney sang of course far from the way Dolly sang back then. and guess what? I totally forgot the way Dolly sang this song! 

and when I heard the news about Dolly passing, I have been listening to this song over and over again, so melancholic, it made me back to my teenage years!  


Have an exciting fly to heaven, Dolly. We will always love you.💓